a broken heart instead of an angry heart

When we had hurt someone's feeling, the work is done. There's no way to reverse it, and even if you try to compensate the wrong doing, the effect is there and will always be there. It can be clarified in a simple situation that we all faced in our lives. When we had lied or back-stab someone, for example a friend, he or she would get hurt and refused to talk to you. Then, when we get to know about it, and tried to make further explanation or even apologies, the wound is still there.

Even if you have succeeded at the later part, you actually have lost the days that you have actually can have fun and talk and share the life with her, also the optimum productivity of yours to complete your daily routine effectively.

Thus, we must think wisely and be responsible to what we had done to minimize the error which with or without intentionally

死亡，是无情的，它一直都在我们的身旁，一个一个地把身旁的人给催眠去了.仇恨以不重要了，毕竟它只会带来更大的伤痛。恨一个人可真的不容易，不如选择忘了过错给大家一个机会从新开始，来个好的发展。

quoted from my friend's MJ's private blog. yes, u get angry on some1, but sometimes it is disappointment n frustration on times, bcaz u have expectation on a friend. if tat person is not our friend, we will straight away ignore a stranger.

sometimes, we focus on making our friend get less angry on us, but y we never think of y on the 1st place we make d friend angry?(with exception of emo-swing cases) y v dont take d TAKE ACTION n correct ourselves so tat we wont make d same mistake in future.....mayb that's y tat friend is disappointed, instead of angrying.

v jz focus on solving d anger n tat's all. but y v cannot focus on d process n do some self-reflection?

Life is short, i have to constantly remind myself.