live in harmony, i tot is very easy, but i m wrong

couldnt believe one can hate a person for a long time, alto d person keep approaching, anything dendam lama say out loud, bt end up........not tired meh? N to create harmony needs 2 parties, a party initiate n another party jz dont bother is useless, regardless how much effort one party gives.

game over?

I am a simple person with simple need. Live harmoneous, tat's all. I do admit lots of improvement, but a slight change in a "Timing syarat" which is rejected can change everything. I make too much demand? With same momentum i tot it is of right track for kebaikan bersama bt i m expecting kucing bertanduk? To b fair, I m ready to fulfill any syarat too.regardless of wat happen tomorrow, hidup hanya sementara, entah esok lusa, i ll never forget to say thank u for d improvement, sincerely, swearly.

In d end, i m being judged from a 2 hour interview performance instead of wat i tolerate, compromise things tat contributely silently without even a single rungutan, menunjuk2(not even d intention). God knows bt wat is d use now?

All d predictions tat i will face a lot of problems including being kicked out in my academic life is getting closer n closer.

Tuhan, batalkan niat yg bersifat kepentingan peribadi

Jika apa yang saya lakukan ialah demi kepentingan peribadi/individu, Tuhan, tolong batalkan segala usahaku dan berharap bahawa ianya menemui kegagalan.

kebaikan sejagat

Demi Tuhan, if my intention is telus, ikhlas, sincere n for kebaikan sejagat(not jz for myself), i hope Tuhan will help me in my journey.

irony to my previous post

There r somethings b4 exam, like a pleasant good luck wishes, there r thing which is best suited after exam like any celebrations, any bad news, any distraction, any maki hamun, any mencari pasal. I dont mind having tat, jz tat after exam. I can settle anything n everything after tat. It is good for any1 too, not jz me

如何才能不与人计较?

有人问： 如何才能不与人计较?

证严上人的回答： 真正自爱的人, 是不会与人计较的。自爱不是私爱, 而是没有自私的爱; 若能自爱, 相对的也能对他人尊重。如同天秤的两头, 一头下垂, 另一头就上提。你若与人斤斤计较, 人格就会低落; 你若谦恭低下, 人格就会升华。
然而只有强忍是不够的, 还要吞忍下去, 再把它化解到什么都没有为止。如果一再计较, 只会徒增是非烦恼而已。所以要内修谦虚── 将心扩大, 人人都能包容; 外修礼仪── 将己缩小, 钻入人人的心。
所谓「公修公得, 婆修婆得, 不修不得」, 若别人以坏声色待你, 不要与他计较, 而应用心自我反省── 自己是那一点做不好, 而令别人有所不满? 找出症结后力求改进, 直到令人见了就欢喜。

True friends

True friends r those who being transparent n honest. At least i know they wont simpan dendam/ talk bad about u. Anything is voiced out in meja rundingan meja bulat, meja muafakat meja perpaduan. Every1 is willing to listen n tolerate/ accept each other, without any insult bcaz v r not comparing who is better than who, where no1 wins.

Nothing I do seem right

There is 2 parties of complain. I try my best, honest to God(only God knows my intention) to satisfy both parties, tat is to reduce frequency, to satisfy every1. In d end, when i do tat, another problem come out. Life is difficult to satisfy every1 rite? Nothing I do seem right

An good quote

The Prophet Muhammad (saw) said, "Do you know what is better than charity and fasting and prayer? It is keeping peace and good relations between people, as quarrels and bad feelings destroy mankind." [Muslim and Bukhari]

Mother Theresa help n work all her life, wat she did is never 对得起自己, she could have stay in a hospital for d rest of her life, at least more comfortably than walking all over India under d hot sun, helping others, but wat she did is very 对得起 others.

Another living example:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wvyh8dXvLt8&feature=player_embedded

Kucing dibunuh tikus dibela

I pull some1 aside, correct some1(not jz stranger la, a friend close enuff to know me), about wat he did wrong, wat other had been critising behind his/her back, bcaz i feel tat every1 has d right to know his/her own mistakes to improve oneself n in hope to improve things tat one keep doing.

Bcaz ppl nvr realise thing tat is done wrong urself. Every1 has d right to know wat he did wrong n to learn from it.

I appreciate friends who appreciate my value n i m grateful to have this transparency characteristic tat i m borned with. I m happy tat my practice is followed by others too.

It is alrite for ppl not to understand my philosophy, hence not appreciate it. At least, wat i did will really ensure i dont talk bad behind ppl or backstab others.

But wat is d case is, i convey softly to others, some ppl jz dont wanna accept honesty. Truth hurts, i know, bt end up,....... Bt wat really angers me of is, d ppl who backstab him/her is diangkat/dijulang tinggi2 by him/her.

Kucing dibunuh tikus dibela?