Decision making

I consider n take Decision A, X scold me. I consider n take Decision B, Y scold me. I consider n take an intermediate of Decision A n B to satify X n Y, X n Y scold me. If i dont take Decision A n B, X n Y scold me. So wat should i do?

It is like i only have one disponsable(can use one time only) frying pan n i can only fried rice or fried noodle, combination of both, or dont fry at all. I cannot fried rice n then washed it n fried another noodle.

n d end, i m jz 老老实实地去做好本份 n i want to b fair to all, n make a win win situation. sometimes, i feel bcaz i m d one who do d decision making, n ppl tend to find flaw n purposely attack me or ppl is jz greedy to get everything. if some1 were to do d same decision, every1 ll agree with him. sometimes, it is bcaz my name is Wei Chern Ang, n if done by AAA or BBB, sure ntg happen

in d end, ppl never see d time i spend/ d effort in my brain/ d memerah otak process, b4 making tat decision. but one thing for sure: only God knows.

yes, i m not doing to please ppl. like i say, i can Integrate A into X and B into Y. bt i cannot b a hypocrite or a double standard, or like wat d chinese saying of being 2 headed snake. i ll look down on myself if i were to do tat.