I like to share quote but i think this is a simple yet best quote, jz personal view, every1 else can disagree "Ppl can do/say bad against us...it is other ppl's right anyway, but we must not do/say bad against others"
like Malaysian always say "Sacrifice a bit can die meh?" ...haha
Friday, December 9, 2011
Saturday, May 28, 2011
another good quote
The richest person is some1 who dont own d most, but needs d least!!!!!bcaz u own 3 thing when other own 1, n u may wants d other 1 tat u dont have.....
Thursday, May 5, 2011
Malaysia
I ll reach Penang on 23 Aug 8:00 PM in Penang and depart from Penang on 28 Sep, 7:10 AM. Come n fetch me...haha
My birthday's post-mortem.
Thx for bai mang chou kong for every1 who drop by my bday. It is a great surprise n time investment despite exam coming. Thank you Carol, Jess, Wan Joo, Yean, Kenny , Jackie , 194, Jecerlyn, Yik Fei.
It is a simple yet a casual. Nothing more complicated than tat.
In life, wat is not yours is not yours, yet I know I get more than wat i need.
I m grateful to see every1 smile, alto every1 must b in intense pressure for exam. N tat is priceless.
A birthday is jz a day but I know I m being celebrated everyday. I m grateful for tat.
200+ posted on your wall. Yet 200+ r not figure, they r individuals. I m sry if i cant reply one by one, but i ll keep in touch, n it really seem a reminder, who i lost track with for a long time.
21 years ago, of coz, it is "Mum's suffering day", nothing much to enjoy, jz tat every1 of us, have a day where our mum endure lots of pain to sqeeze us out. I wont feel d pain for d rest of my life, but i know tat process itself is life-threatening process. It is a chance of fate too to have both parties survive, especially up till now.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KqJ7XodjqV8
Thank you for who I am now. I m having i have friends who may b direct, but it is them who invest time n hope on me tat helps me to grow, hence my 21 now. Of coz, they can choose to ignore me, bt they stop n help me when i fall/fail. I m not afraid i do make mistake in life. I m willing to take this opportunity humbly to apologise if I say anything hurtful to u, hurt u.
Sometimes I question myself:
-Am I a good son?
- Am I a good brother?
-Am I a good cousin?
-Am I a good friend?
2 years later, d same day, will b a 4th year final exam, yet, I think i ll miss each n every1 of u guys. It is already 2 years I m here, I learn a lot, in term of non-academic things. Thx for d learning opportunity. I dunno 2 years of today, 5 May 2013, will i be miss(lol)? Or will i miss every1? I m wrong to say "dont miss me too much", i ll say "i ll miss every1 too much".
Some song to wrap up:
Thx again n good luck in exam!
Chinese :http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qj3FVaXson8
Malay: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yrv2D4htoro
English : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0HDM3eYp4KQ (too early for this but i like it)
It is a simple yet a casual. Nothing more complicated than tat.
In life, wat is not yours is not yours, yet I know I get more than wat i need.
I m grateful to see every1 smile, alto every1 must b in intense pressure for exam. N tat is priceless.
A birthday is jz a day but I know I m being celebrated everyday. I m grateful for tat.
200+ posted on your wall. Yet 200+ r not figure, they r individuals. I m sry if i cant reply one by one, but i ll keep in touch, n it really seem a reminder, who i lost track with for a long time.
21 years ago, of coz, it is "Mum's suffering day", nothing much to enjoy, jz tat every1 of us, have a day where our mum endure lots of pain to sqeeze us out. I wont feel d pain for d rest of my life, but i know tat process itself is life-threatening process. It is a chance of fate too to have both parties survive, especially up till now.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KqJ7XodjqV8
Thank you for who I am now. I m having i have friends who may b direct, but it is them who invest time n hope on me tat helps me to grow, hence my 21 now. Of coz, they can choose to ignore me, bt they stop n help me when i fall/fail. I m not afraid i do make mistake in life. I m willing to take this opportunity humbly to apologise if I say anything hurtful to u, hurt u.
Sometimes I question myself:
-Am I a good son?
- Am I a good brother?
-Am I a good cousin?
-Am I a good friend?
2 years later, d same day, will b a 4th year final exam, yet, I think i ll miss each n every1 of u guys. It is already 2 years I m here, I learn a lot, in term of non-academic things. Thx for d learning opportunity. I dunno 2 years of today, 5 May 2013, will i be miss(lol)? Or will i miss every1? I m wrong to say "dont miss me too much", i ll say "i ll miss every1 too much".
Some song to wrap up:
Thx again n good luck in exam!
Chinese :http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qj3FVaXson8
Malay: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yrv2D4htoro
English : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0HDM3eYp4KQ (too early for this but i like it)
Sunday, March 20, 2011
2012
It is good to have d thinking 2012 is d end of d world, at least v r more appreciative, complain less, n mayb make donation n help others more(assume d money n everything v have wont last after 2012)
Sunday, February 20, 2011
believe
He no longer wanna speak with me. I dunno wat went wrong. Even not s friend, at least as a jiran.
Really cant conc on my studies nowadays.
Indeed, I do realise my own mistakes, my own dosa after locking myself in d room. I really hope to tebus, if only there is opportunity. I cant do much, i ll do watever wat I can. It is all about 2 way thing. i cant just tepuk sebelah tangan.
anyway, if this is the test, i ll take it. I believe tat if i m sincere enuff, no kepentingan peribadi, n if god knows i deserve it, maybe a good friend whom I know for 3 years, a friend who helped me a lot in my a level time, a smile tat I will never forget, suka n duka. Of coz, life goes on for him, w/o me, but is it a waste to have such a long struggle to end tat way? I feel wasted.
One lesson i learn: I do admit tat human tend to remember d bad thing tat happen to them n forget d good side of ppl. at least thru my locking myself in d room, i start to c a good point of ppl.... no1 is borned a devil n no1 deserved to b dipandang hina jz bcaz of some of his condition.
I know i go against d majority, to defend a minority, to stand with wat i believe. it makes me rugi, i know. bcaz i dont think i gain loss from both sides in d end, bt thx for a friend who convince me of ULTIMATE FAIRNESS. i do regret not being a pak turut, a "yes sir", maybe i wont suffer like this, but i know i defended a minority, which no1 cares much. Alto not being appreciated in d end(I do it not to get appreciation anyway, if i want to get appreciation, y i cant do it in front of ppl who award d appreciation in 1st place?), if time goez back again, i ll definitely do d same, bcaz i know i do d right thing.
wateve future holds, being ignored further, he ll still be my friend, regardless wat others say.
Really cant conc on my studies nowadays.
Indeed, I do realise my own mistakes, my own dosa after locking myself in d room. I really hope to tebus, if only there is opportunity. I cant do much, i ll do watever wat I can. It is all about 2 way thing. i cant just tepuk sebelah tangan.
anyway, if this is the test, i ll take it. I believe tat if i m sincere enuff, no kepentingan peribadi, n if god knows i deserve it, maybe a good friend whom I know for 3 years, a friend who helped me a lot in my a level time, a smile tat I will never forget, suka n duka. Of coz, life goes on for him, w/o me, but is it a waste to have such a long struggle to end tat way? I feel wasted.
One lesson i learn: I do admit tat human tend to remember d bad thing tat happen to them n forget d good side of ppl. at least thru my locking myself in d room, i start to c a good point of ppl.... no1 is borned a devil n no1 deserved to b dipandang hina jz bcaz of some of his condition.
I know i go against d majority, to defend a minority, to stand with wat i believe. it makes me rugi, i know. bcaz i dont think i gain loss from both sides in d end, bt thx for a friend who convince me of ULTIMATE FAIRNESS. i do regret not being a pak turut, a "yes sir", maybe i wont suffer like this, but i know i defended a minority, which no1 cares much. Alto not being appreciated in d end(I do it not to get appreciation anyway, if i want to get appreciation, y i cant do it in front of ppl who award d appreciation in 1st place?), if time goez back again, i ll definitely do d same, bcaz i know i do d right thing.
wateve future holds, being ignored further, he ll still be my friend, regardless wat others say.
Thursday, February 3, 2011
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
1st anniversary of Mancunian Appreciation Day(MAD)
有朋自远方来，不亦乐乎？
I m glad a Cardiffian visit Man too. Appreciate d hospitality of UCSI friends(not jz Mancunian, bt Cardiffian n Londoner n etc) when Bathonians crash their place. Plz crash our place n glad tat v will b meeting mancunians n londoners soon.
It was 1 February 2010 when Bathonians leave Manchester, so just ponder on how much i owe all wonderful ppl in this world tat make my life colourful
I m glad a Cardiffian visit Man too. Appreciate d hospitality of UCSI friends(not jz Mancunian, bt Cardiffian n Londoner n etc) when Bathonians crash their place. Plz crash our place n glad tat v will b meeting mancunians n londoners soon.
It was 1 February 2010 when Bathonians leave Manchester, so just ponder on how much i owe all wonderful ppl in this world tat make my life colourful
Wednesday, January 26, 2011
live in harmony, i tot is very easy, but i m wrong
couldnt believe one can hate a person for a long time, alto d person keep approaching, anything dendam lama say out loud, bt end up........not tired meh? N to create harmony needs 2 parties, a party initiate n another party jz dont bother is useless, regardless how much effort one party gives.
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
game over?
I am a simple person with simple need. Live harmoneous, tat's all. I do admit lots of improvement, but a slight change in a "Timing syarat" which is rejected can change everything. I make too much demand? With same momentum i tot it is of right track for kebaikan bersama bt i m expecting kucing bertanduk? To b fair, I m ready to fulfill any syarat too.regardless of wat happen tomorrow, hidup hanya sementara, entah esok lusa, i ll never forget to say thank u for d improvement, sincerely, swearly.
In d end, i m being judged from a 2 hour interview performance instead of wat i tolerate, compromise things tat contributely silently without even a single rungutan, menunjuk2(not even d intention). God knows bt wat is d use now?
All d predictions tat i will face a lot of problems including being kicked out in my academic life is getting closer n closer.
In d end, i m being judged from a 2 hour interview performance instead of wat i tolerate, compromise things tat contributely silently without even a single rungutan, menunjuk2(not even d intention). God knows bt wat is d use now?
All d predictions tat i will face a lot of problems including being kicked out in my academic life is getting closer n closer.
Tuhan, batalkan niat yg bersifat kepentingan peribadi
Jika apa yang saya lakukan ialah demi kepentingan peribadi/individu, Tuhan, tolong batalkan segala usahaku dan berharap bahawa ianya menemui kegagalan.
kebaikan sejagat
Demi Tuhan, if my intention is telus, ikhlas, sincere n for kebaikan sejagat(not jz for myself), i hope Tuhan will help me in my journey.
Sunday, January 23, 2011
irony to my previous post
There r somethings b4 exam, like a pleasant good luck wishes, there r thing which is best suited after exam like any celebrations, any bad news, any distraction, any maki hamun, any mencari pasal. I dont mind having tat, jz tat after exam. I can settle anything n everything after tat. It is good for any1 too, not jz me
Saturday, January 15, 2011
如何才能不与人计较?
有人问： 如何才能不与人计较?
证严上人的回答： 真正自爱的人, 是不会与人计较的。自爱不是私爱, 而是没有自私的爱; 若能自爱, 相对的也能对他人尊重。如同天秤的两头, 一头下垂, 另一头就上提。你若与人斤斤计较, 人格就会低落; 你若谦恭低下, 人格就会升华。
然而只有强忍是不够的, 还要吞忍下去, 再把它化解到什么都没有为止。如果一再计较, 只会徒增是非烦恼而已。所以要内修谦虚── 将心扩大, 人人都能包容; 外修礼仪── 将己缩小, 钻入人人的心。
所谓「公修公得, 婆修婆得, 不修不得」, 若别人以坏声色待你, 不要与他计较, 而应用心自我反省── 自己是那一点做不好, 而令别人有所不满? 找出症结后力求改进, 直到令人见了就欢喜。
证严上人的回答： 真正自爱的人, 是不会与人计较的。自爱不是私爱, 而是没有自私的爱; 若能自爱, 相对的也能对他人尊重。如同天秤的两头, 一头下垂, 另一头就上提。你若与人斤斤计较, 人格就会低落; 你若谦恭低下, 人格就会升华。
然而只有强忍是不够的, 还要吞忍下去, 再把它化解到什么都没有为止。如果一再计较, 只会徒增是非烦恼而已。所以要内修谦虚── 将心扩大, 人人都能包容; 外修礼仪── 将己缩小, 钻入人人的心。
所谓「公修公得, 婆修婆得, 不修不得」, 若别人以坏声色待你, 不要与他计较, 而应用心自我反省── 自己是那一点做不好, 而令别人有所不满? 找出症结后力求改进, 直到令人见了就欢喜。
Saturday, January 8, 2011
True friends
True friends r those who being transparent n honest. At least i know they wont simpan dendam/ talk bad about u. Anything is voiced out in meja rundingan meja bulat, meja muafakat meja perpaduan. Every1 is willing to listen n tolerate/ accept each other, without any insult bcaz v r not comparing who is better than who, where no1 wins.
Nothing I do seem right
There is 2 parties of complain. I try my best, honest to God(only God knows my intention) to satisfy both parties, tat is to reduce frequency, to satisfy every1. In d end, when i do tat, another problem come out. Life is difficult to satisfy every1 rite? Nothing I do seem right
Monday, January 3, 2011
An good quote
The Prophet Muhammad (saw) said, "Do you know what is better than charity and fasting and prayer? It is keeping peace and good relations between people, as quarrels and bad feelings destroy mankind." [Muslim and Bukhari]
Saturday, January 1, 2011
Mother Theresa help n work all her life, wat she did is never 对得起自己, she could have stay in a hospital for d rest of her life, at least more comfortably than walking all over India under d hot sun, helping others, but wat she did is very 对得起 others.
Another living example:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wvyh8dXvLt8&feature=player_embedded
Another living example:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wvyh8dXvLt8&feature=player_embedded
Kucing dibunuh tikus dibela
I pull some1 aside, correct some1(not jz stranger la, a friend close enuff to know me), about wat he did wrong, wat other had been critising behind his/her back, bcaz i feel tat every1 has d right to know his/her own mistakes to improve oneself n in hope to improve things tat one keep doing.
Bcaz ppl nvr realise thing tat is done wrong urself. Every1 has d right to know wat he did wrong n to learn from it.
I appreciate friends who appreciate my value n i m grateful to have this transparency characteristic tat i m borned with. I m happy tat my practice is followed by others too.
It is alrite for ppl not to understand my philosophy, hence not appreciate it. At least, wat i did will really ensure i dont talk bad behind ppl or backstab others.
But wat is d case is, i convey softly to others, some ppl jz dont wanna accept honesty. Truth hurts, i know, bt end up,....... Bt wat really angers me of is, d ppl who backstab him/her is diangkat/dijulang tinggi2 by him/her.
Kucing dibunuh tikus dibela?
Bcaz ppl nvr realise thing tat is done wrong urself. Every1 has d right to know wat he did wrong n to learn from it.
I appreciate friends who appreciate my value n i m grateful to have this transparency characteristic tat i m borned with. I m happy tat my practice is followed by others too.
It is alrite for ppl not to understand my philosophy, hence not appreciate it. At least, wat i did will really ensure i dont talk bad behind ppl or backstab others.
But wat is d case is, i convey softly to others, some ppl jz dont wanna accept honesty. Truth hurts, i know, bt end up,....... Bt wat really angers me of is, d ppl who backstab him/her is diangkat/dijulang tinggi2 by him/her.
Kucing dibunuh tikus dibela?
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